Episode 2: Annie’s Story

“I didn’t know that it wasn’t normal for [sex] to hurt. I definitely fell into the category of ‘doing wifely duties.'”

In episode two, I interview Annie. Annie was raised in a Southern Baptist community, and was so closed off from her own body that her friends called her “trench coat”. When she got married as a virgin at 19, sex was painful and she thought that was normal. Listen as she tells how she recovered her relationship with her body after an affair shattered everything.

Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Southern Baptist
  • True Love Waits
  • Joshua Harris ‘I Kissed Dating Goodbye’
  • pray it away
  • temptation
  • flesh is evil
  • childhood sexuality
  • masturbating
  • confession
  • Proverbs 31
  • Stormie Omartian ‘Power of a Praying Wife’
  • wifely duties
  • waiting for marriage
  • vulvodynia
  • painful sex
  • affair
  • trauma
  • gold star virgin
  • therapy
  • divorce
  • grief rituals
  • sex positivity
  • sexual agency
  • grown-up sex